Showing posts with label finances. Show all posts
Showing posts with label finances. Show all posts

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Questions to Discuss Before You Get Married

Questions for Engaged Couples
-- Questions to Discuss Before You Get Married
General
Family of Origin
Self Image
Time and Chores
Money
Parenting
Spirituality and Religion
Sex
Conflict

General
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Will you change the
 toilet paper roll?
Why are we getting married? Pregnancy, financial security, loneliness or wanting to get out of the family home are not valid reasons to get married.


  • What do we as a couple want out of life?
  • What do you think we'll be doing in thirty or forty years?
  • How often do you drink?
  • Have you ever hit someone?
  • Do you think it is important to be faithful to one another?
  • Do you have a criminal record?

  • Family of Origin
    What was your childhood like?
  • Was your family an affectionate one?

  • Do you think we will have problems with your family during the holidays?

  • What values do you want to bring from your family into our marriage?

  • What do you like and dislike about your family?
  • what do you like and dislike about my family?
  • What do you like and dislike about your parents' marriage?
  • What do you like and dislike about my parents' marriage?

  • Self Image

    How would you describe yourself?
  • How do you think I see you?
  • Am I a jealous person?
  • Do I have trust issues or feel insecure?
  • How important is affirmation to me?
  • Do I handle compliments well?

  • What is your love language?
  • Do you think we listen to one another well?
  • Do you think it is important to know one another's physical and mental health histories?
  • How important do you think self care is?
  • Monday, May 13, 2013

    What To Know When You're 25(ish)



    What To Know When You're 25(ish)



    Here are the things really worth caring about in your 20s.
    Editor's note: This week, we're taking a look at some of the "Best of RELEVANTMagazine.com" from 2010. This article is our most read ever. Period. End of story. It clearly hit many of you (and us) right where you're at—approaching, at, or just past your late 20s, trying to figure out what it's all meant and where you go from here. Most of you really resonated with Shauna's thoughts, though some of you had quibbles with some of her emphases. But read it over again, and chime in below. The year might be almost over, but the conversation can keep going.


    When you’re 25-ish, you’re old enough to know what kind of music you love, regardless of what your last boyfriend or roommate always used to play. You know how to walk in heels, how to tie a necktie, how to give a good toast at a wedding and how to make something for dinner. You don’t have to think much about skin care, home ownership or your retirement plan. Your life can look a lot of different ways when you’re 25: single, dating, engaged, married. You are working in dream jobs, pay-the-bills jobs and downright horrible jobs. You are young enough to believe that anything is possible, and you are old enough to make that belief a reality.
    Job
    Now is the time to figure out what kind of work you love to do. What are you good at? What makes you feel alive? What do you dream about? You can go back to school now, switch directions entirely. You can work for almost nothing, or live in another country, or volunteer long hours for something that moves you. There will be a time when finances and schedules make this a little trickier, so do it now. Try it, apply for it, get up and do it.
    When I was 25, I was in my third job in as many years—all in the same area at a church, but the responsibilities were different each time. I was frustrated at the end of the third year because I didn’t know exactly what I wanted to do next. I didn’t feel like I’d found my place yet. I met with my boss, who was in his 50s. I told him how anxious I was about finding the one perfect job for me, and quick. He asked me how old I was, and when I told him I was 25, he told me that I couldn’t complain to him about finding the right job until I was 32. In his opinion, it takes about 10 years after college to find the right fit, and anyone who finds it earlier than that is just plain lucky. So use every bit of your 10 years: try things, take classes, start over.
    Relationships
    Now is also the time to get serious about relationships. And “serious” might mean walking away from the ones that don’t give you everything you need. Some of the most life-shaping decisions you make in this season will be about walking away from good-enough, in search of can’t-live-without. One of the only truly devastating mistakes you can make in this season is staying with the wrong person even though you know he or she is the wrong person. It’s not fair to that person, and it’s not fair to you.
    Counseling
    Twenty-five is also a great time to start counseling, if you haven’t already, and it might be a good round two of counseling if it’s been a while. You might have just enough space from your parents to start digging around your childhood a little bit. Unravel the knots that keep you from living a healthy whole life, and do it now, before any more time passes.

    Wednesday, April 17, 2013

    10 Financial Commandments for Your 20s

     

    10 Financial Commandments for Your 20s

    Erin BurtJust starting out? Set yourself up for a lifetime of money success with these time-tested principles.


    When you're in your twenties, change is a way of life. You're choosing a career, paying your own bills, getting your own place to live and perhaps making decisions about marriage and family.
    The more things change, the more important a stable financial foundation becomes. We've listed ten principles that should be carved in stone for every twentysomething. No matter where you are on the pathway to independence, these time-tested guidelines will boost your odds of financial success.

    1. Plan ahead. To get where you want to go in life, you need goals and a plan to reach them. Having neither is like driving a car without a steering wheel -- with your eyes closed.
    Start by asking yourself what  you want in your future. Think about the short term (five years or less), medium term (five to ten years) and long term (20-plus years). Now you're driving with your eyes open. Then take hold of the steering wheel to reach your goals. Budgeting is a great way to do this. It allows you to see where your money is going so you can make the necessary adjustments to get you where you want to go. Learn more about how to set up and use a budget.

    2. Live within your means. Can't afford something? Don't buy it. Sounds simple, but too many people have a heck of a time following this one and get in over their heads in debt. Borrow sparingly, and only for those things that have lasting value, such as a home or an education. (To learn more, see When is it Worth Going Into Debt?) Learn to keep spending in check while you're young and you'll save thousands of dollars over the years -- and save yourself a lot of stress, too.

    Read more at http://www.kiplinger.com/article/saving/T063-C006-S001-10-financial-commandments-for-your-20s.html#1L8M1QD6v6zE5B7P.99


    3. Make saving a habit. You work hard for your money, so when your paycheck arrives, why not make yourself the first person you pay? Arrange with your bank to automatically divert part of your paycheck every month into a savings account. That way, you won't have to remember to transfer the money manually, and you won't even miss it when it's gone. Out of sight, out of mind.
    Your first savings priority is to amass an emergency fund. Eventually, you'll want enough cash on-hand to cover at least three months of your expenses in case of the unexpected, such as a job loss, medical emergency or car repairs. Once your emergency fund is well under way, you can divide your monthly savings deposit to go toward other goals too, such as buying your first home, getting a new car or taking a dream vacation.
    4. Pay off your credit cards. If you have a credit-card balance, now's the time to rid yourself of that albatross around your neck. Set a goal to pay off all credit-card debt before you turn 30 and have other financial responsibilities to tend to.
    A $2,000 balance at 18% interest would take nearly ten years to pay off if you made the minimum 4% payment each month and would cost you an extra $1,116 in interest. To pay it off in two years, you'd only need $100 per month to be rid of the debt. Use our calculator to find out what it'll take to pay off your balance. Then, commit to use your credit card only for expenses you can afford to pay off each month (see the 2nd commandment).
    5. Start investing. The sooner you start investing for retirement, the less painful it will be and the more money you'll accumulate. Let's say a man starts socking away $200 a month at age 25 in an account earning an average annual return of 8%. By the time he turns 65, he'll have $703,000. But if he waits until he turns 30 to start saving, he'll end up with only $462,000. In other words, that five-year delay could cost him almost a quarter of a million dollars (see Behold the Miracle of Compounding).
    A Roth IRA is a good place to start, because earnings on your investments will be tax-free. Your employer may also offer a workplace investment plan, such as a 401(k). If your employer matches some or all of your contributions, invest in your company plan first -- that's free money you shouldn't pass up. Check out our 30-Minute Investing Start-Up Kit for a step-by-step guide to start investing right away.
    6. Establish credit. In order to qualify for the best interest rates on a credit card, auto loan or mortgage, you need to start building a solid credit history. In fact, a good history can also save you a bundle on your auto insurance or help you land an apartment or a job (see Why Your Credit Score Matters). Building a good credit history in your twenties will ensure it's ready when you need to use it.
    If you didn't have a credit card in college, one way of getting credit now is to apply for a secured card: You make a deposit -- usually $300 to $500 -- in a savings account as collateral, and you can get the money back after one year of using the card responsibly. You can also start building a credit history through www.prbc.com, an alternative credit bureau that gathers data on regular payments for rent, cable and other recurring expenses. (See Rent Your Way to Good Credit to learn more.)
    7. Have a marketable skill. "Your own earning power -- rooted in your education and job skills -- is the most valuable asset you'll ever own," says Knight Kiplinger, editor in chief of Kiplinger.com. Your twenties is the time to invest in yourself to acquire those skills that will start your career and boost your earnings.
    It's also a good idea to start building and maintaining a network while you're young. Personal contacts can come in handy to further your career or even enhance your personal life.
    8. Cut the financial umbilical cord. You have your own apartment and your own paycheck. You may even have your own spouse and children. Isn't it time you grew up? If Mom and Dad are still preparing your taxes, balancing your checkbook or managing your investments, consider this: Whoever controls your finances controls your life.
    The desire for parents to help their kids is nothing new, as is the desire for kids to let them. Just don't let it get in the way of learning to succeed financially on your own. Your parents aren't going to be around forever to help you out. You may also reach a point in your life when you don't want your parents to know the intricate details of your finances. Start now to cut the cord. We've got four tips to help ease the transition.
    9. Marry wisely. You and your spouse create the most important team in your life. You'll want to make sure your team works well -- and shares similar financial values -- so you can work together toward common goals. Money can drive a wedge between even the strongest of couples. So choose a spouse with whom you can keep communication open, avoid keeping money secrets from and regularly assess your goals and progress. (See 10 Questions to Ask Before Saying 'I Do' to make sure your union is on the right financial track.)
    And, of course, it helps to base your marriage on something deeper than physical attraction. Divorce is costly and can derail even the best-laid financial plan.
    10. Have some fun. Personal finance doesn't have to be boring. Taking the time to travel and have new experiences before you have a couple of cranky kids in tow is not only easier, it's cheaper. Consider a semester abroad in college. Seek out inexpensive entertainment close to home. Take a class just for fun. Or take advantage of cheap travel options such as youth hostels, camping and off-season travel deals.
    Build some memories, meet new people and try new things. But please, don't go into debt to do it. Save up ahead of time and you'll be in prime position to make the most of your thirties...

    Read more at http://www.kiplinger.com/article/saving/T063-C006-S001-10-financial-commandments-for-your-20s.html#1L8M1QD6v6zE5B7P.99

    Saturday, March 30, 2013

    God Will Prepare Us

    God Will Prepare Us

    When it is God’s time to bring something into our lives,

    He will often do it after HE has prepared us to receive it.

    He may withhold a place of leadership until He has taught us how to serve.

    He may withhold honor until He has taught us humility.

    He may withhold possessions until He has taught us contentment.

    He may withhold a relationship until He has taught us to be complete in Him.

    He may withhold an overflow of finances until He has taught us how to give.

    He may withhold guidance until He has taught us what is pleasing to Him.

    He may withhold an active ministry until He taught us how to be still.


      - Unknown


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    Friday, March 29, 2013

    ME: Five Years From Now


    I bought this book at Barnes & Noble when I lived in Westlake. It's been a great book to whip out when I'm pondering about my future. I love any type of book that asks questions and this one definitely fits that category.

    A few example questions:

    I know this book will be with me in my library for....well, I hope forever. It doesn't matter if you're 21 or your 61, the questions still pertain to you.

    Some of my other book recommendations: SaraHHouse365  | Book Recommendations Feb 2013


    Wednesday, March 20, 2013

    10 Lessons Everyone Learns In Their 20s

    Ms. Jaclyn Sayre posted this on her Facebook. I enjoyed the truth behind the majority of these!
    Ah, next week I will celebrate my golden birthday (26) - jumping into the 2nd half of my 20's!

    10 Lessons Everyone Learns In Their 20s
    Jan. 25, 2013
    Chelsea Fagan is a writer living in Paris. It's less pretentious than it sounds.

    1. Metabolism isn’t magic.

    It’s hard not to get used to the grotesque Roman orgy of eating habits that is youth. You can live on an uninterrupted diet of Mountain Dew, Doritos, and the errant Toaster Strudel for when you’re feeling like doing a bit of kitchen work, never seeing an ounce of your folly go straight to your carefree hips. Then, at a certain point, you eat an Oreo and can actually watch that bad boy travel from your esophagus to your ass if you stand in front of a full-length mirror. And the energy you constantly felt, regardless of the day’s activities or the time you’d gotten up that morning? Now, if you’re not living on a diet of nothing but kale and Yoga For Self-Righteous People, you’re essentially comatose by 3 PM. It appears that being healthy requires work, and few things in life seem to suck more than that fact.

    2. People evolve at different speeds.

    Look in your phone contacts. Pick out any two random 25-year-olds. Tell me what they’re both doing with their lives. Chances are that one of them is spending most nights scrounging around on Facebook for a good electronica show where they can get in for less than five dollars and hopefully score some free molly from an acquaintance because they’ve been out of a job for about four months. And it’s likely that the other is currently married with a house purchased in a nice-but-still-kind-of-hip suburb and is excited at the prospect of zestily reproducing in the next few years. One of them is getting monogrammed kitchen towels and handmade soaps for the guest bathroom, while the other is posting seven statuses a day from the comfort of their living room whilst getting high and watching reruns of Maury and eating Gogurt. And neither of these are right or wrong.

    3. Having kids isn’t (always) the end of the world.

    While there are always going to be the friends who fall off the face of the planet in a jumble of sanctimonious Facebook comments over how much more fulfilled her life is now that she’s a mother, that is far from being the case for all who spawn. Outside of the ones whose lives become a blur of ultrasound photos and breast pumps, there are going to be many cool moms who are still totally interesting and who have just happened to push another person out of their body recently. And though it is undoubtedly terrifying the first time you see someone you used to hold beer bongs for announce that they’re bringing another human being into the world, you soon realize that it doesn’t always signal the death of a friendship.

    4. Weddings are weird.

    People lose their fucking minds over weddings. They just go completely insane, evacuate their bodies, and let the cavernous entity be filled with some kind of Viking trickster imp whose sole purpose in life is to complain about stress and pick out floral arrangements. I know people who recently got married and rode in on matching horses with rose petals all around them and the groom wearing a top hat. These are real people who otherwise do normal things, such as go to the movies, get a beer with friends, watch the news, and go to work on the subway instead of on MATCHING FUCKING HORSES. We must all learn to excuse these temporary lapses in judgment, as they have been brought on by Wedding Fever, and are not an accurate reflection of who this person is as a whole.

    5. People are pretentious about jobs.

    Essentially, when it comes to jobs, you can’t win. There is always going to be someone with something incredibly snarky and presumptuous to say about your life and your choices. If you’re working as an assistant somewhere, someone will tell you that you shouldn’t have picked such a “useless major” and that you deserve to be stuck in your coffee-fetching fate. If you’re in service, people will harangue you about when you’re planning on getting a “real job,” as though that isn’t somehow the most insulting thing a human being could say to you. If you’re working long hours at a hard-won corporate job, people are going to hold it against you when you can’t do coke until five in the morning and show up fresh-faced for the big meeting the next day. You just can’t win, so it’s best not to try.

    6. The rental market is out to get you.

    There will come a moment when you realize that so much of your life and the lives of your friend seem to center around where you’re all living. Who has a good apartment? Who’s in a good location? Who was forced to drag themselves out to the exterior suburbs with their tail between their legs? Whose parents are paying their rent for them? It’s the moment in life where it’s not at all unclassy to be like “Hey, how much do you pay for this place, if you don’t mind me asking” and either be sent into a blind rage or a feeling of smug victory at the response.

    7. Credit is the devil.

    At some point between looking at how much money you still owe a student loan organization for all of those misguided choices you were goaded into making by guidance counselors somewhere around junior year of high school, and having to cut up the one credit card you ever owned because you discovered that it was only a matter of time before that thing was going to be used to pay for drunken Taco Bell, you figured it out. Credit is just the worst, and our parents left us a financial world that is essentially one of those sets from old western movies where the building fronts are just propped up on stilts and could blow over with a particularly robust burst of wind. We must try not to recreate the same.

    8. Partying must be done in moderation.

    There will come the hangover that makes you understand this, and you never know exactly when it’s going to be. You’ll go balls-to-the-wall at some party because, hey, you’re young and beautiful and that terrible David Guetta song is playing and why not. And if this were your 19-year-old self, you would just wake up the next morning, brush the vomit off of your jacket, and go to an all-day music festival in the baking Tennessee sun. But you’re not, and so instead, you wake up feeling as though someone is standing over you with a jackhammer to your temple and a Quiet Riot record playing at top volume and double speed through the bedroom window. And it is at that moment where you swear to whatever being you pray to that, next time, you’re having a glass of water between every drink.

    9. You will never please everyone.

    Though this is a lesson that is undoubtedly learned at every stage of life, and through varying degrees of emotional pain, the 20s are a great example of people’s tendency to poo-poo your decisions even though no one fucking asked them. This is the time to be choosing your career path, living situation, geographical location, romantic goals, and every other direction you want to be heading in your young life. You don’t have it all down yet, but you’ve got some vague ideas. And it is at this point that Judgmental Judy and her friends Financially Feasible Fran and Smugly Superior Stanley are going to come over to your house and tell you how all about what you’re doing is not good or right, as though it involves them in any way. Get married, and friends will call you lame. Stay single, and your bitchy aunt will judge you over Thanksgiving dinner. Move away and people will miss you. Stay and they’ll be sick of you. No matter what you do, there will be at least a few people who think you’re an idiot for doing it.

    10. Friends are not forever.

    The people you grew up with are not going to universally be there at every milestone after college. They’re not going to be there, and many of them aren’t going to care. And though it’s hard to accept at first that you can go from getting high with someone in a Celica every day after school to never hearing from them until someone else mentions their pending nuptials on Facebook, it’s for the best to remember that they don’t really matter. We only have room for so many real friends in life, and if some are so fair-weather as to jump ship the second you move one county away, you didn’t need them anyway. TC mark

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    Thursday, December 13, 2012

    20 Things Life Is Too Short To Tolerate

    Stumbled upon this article in December while I was sprinkling my calendar with some motivation.

    20 Things Life Is Too Short To Tolerate


    You don’t have to settle, it’s simply a choice you make every day.  If you feel like you’re running in place there’s a good chance you’re tolerating things you shouldn’t be.  It’s time to reclaim your life.
    Starting now, stop tolerating…
    1. People who bring you down. – Relationships should help you, not hurt you.  Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded.
    2. A work environment or career field you hate. – Don’t settle on the first or second career field you dabble in.  Keep searching.  Eventually you will find work you love to do.  If you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop.  You’re on to something big.  Because hard work ain’t hard when you concentrate on your passions.
    3. Your own negativity. – Be aware of your mental self-talk.  We all talk silently to ourselves in our heads, but we aren’t always conscious of what we’re saying or how it’s affecting us.  Start listening to your thoughts.  If you hear negative thoughts, stop and replace them with positive thoughts.
    4. Unnecessary miscommunication. – Say what you mean.  Mean what you say.  Speak clearly.  Ask questions.  Clarify things until you understand them.
    5. A disorganized living and working space. – Clear the clutter.  Get rid of stuff you don’t use.  Read David Allen’s book Getting Things Donefor some practical organizational guidance.
    6. Your own tardiness. – Get up 30 minutes earlier so you don’t have to rush around like a mad man.  That 30 minutes will help you avoid speeding tickets, tardiness and other unnecessary headaches.
    7. Pressure to fit in with the crowd. – Oftentimes, the only reason others want you to fit in is that once you do they can ignore you and go about their business.  Don’t conform.  Be you, because that’s the only person you can be.
    8. An unhealthy body. – Your health is your life.  Don’t let it go.  Eat right, exercise and get an annual physical check-up.  The 4-Hour Body is an insightful and entertaining read on this topic.
    9. Fear of change. – Life is change.  Every day is different.  Every day is a new beginning and a new ending.  Embrace it and make the best of it.
    10. All work and no play. – Enjoy yourself and have a little fun while you can.  If you’re smiling, you’re doing something right.
    11. People or beauty ads that make you feel inadequate. – Good looks attracts the eyes.  Personality attracts the heart.  Be proud to be you.  You are already beautiful.
    12. Not getting enough sleep. – A tired mind is rarely productive.
    13. Doing the same exact thing over and over again. – You are the sum of your life experiences.  The more you experience, the more interesting your life story gets.
    14. Personal greed. – Don’t let greed and deceit get the best of you.  Greed will bury even the lucky eventually.
    15. A mounting pile of debt. – Always live well below your means.  Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.  Always sleep on big purchases.  Create a budget and savings plan and stick to them.  Read I Will Teach You To Be Rich.
    16. Dishonesty. – Living a life of honesty creates peace of mind, and peace of mind is priceless.  Period.  Don’t be dishonest and don’t put up with people who are.
    17. Infidelity. – Intimate relationships are a sacred bond – a circle of trust.  If both parties aren’t 100% onboard the relationship isn’t worth fighting for.
    18. An unsafe home. – If you don’t feel safe at home you’ll never feel safe anywhere.  Build a loving household in a safe area that you are proud to call ‘home.’
    19. Being unprepared. – Life is unpredictable.  And there’s a big difference between being scared and being prepared.  Always be prepared.
    20. Inaction. – Either you’re going to take action and seize new opportunities or someone else will.  You can’t change anything or make any sort of progress by sitting back and thinking about it.
    And remember, you only live once, but if you live it right once is enough.
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    Monday, December 10, 2012

    10 Virtues of the Proverbs 31 Woman


    10 Virtues of the Proverbs 31 Woman





    We want to encourage women to serve God in every aspect of their lives.

    1. Faith - A Virtuous Woman serves God with all of her heart, mind, and soul. She seeks His will for her life and follows His ways.
    (Proverbs 31: 26, Proverbs 31: 29 – 31, Matthew 22: 37, John 14: 15, Psalm 119: 15)

    2. Marriage – A Virtuous Woman respects her husband. She does him good all the days of her life. She is trustworthy and a helpmeet.
    (Proverbs 31: 11- 12, Proverbs 31: 23, Proverbs 31: 28, 1 Peter 3, Ephesians 5, Genesis2: 18)

    3. Mothering - A Virtuous Woman teaches her children the ways of her Father in heaven. She nurtures her children with the love of Christ, disciplines them with care and wisdom, and trains them in the way they should go.
    (Proverbs 31: 28, Proverbs 31: 26, Proverbs 22: 6, Deuteronomy 6, Luke 18: 16)

    4. Health – A Virtuous Woman cares for her body. She prepares healthy food for her family. (Proverbs 31: 14 – 15, Proverbs 31: 17, 1 Corinthians 6: 19, Genesis 1: 29, Daniel 1, Leviticus 11)

    5. Service - A Virtuous Woman serves her husband, her family, her friends, and her neighbors with a gentle and loving spirit. She is charitable.
    (Proverbs 31: 12, Proverbs 31: 15, Proverbs 31: 20, 1 Corinthians 13: 13)

    6. Finances - A Virtuous Woman seeks her husband’s approval before making purchases and spends money wisely. She is careful to purchase quality items which her family needs.
     (Proverbs 31: 14, Proverbs 31: 16, Proverbs 31: 18, 1 Timothy 6: 10, Ephesians 5: 23, Deuteronomy 14: 22, Numbers 18: 26)

    7. Industry – A Virtuous Woman works willingly with her hands. She sings praises to God and does not grumble while completing her tasks.
    (Proverbs 31: 13, Proverbs 31: 16, Proverbs 31: 24, Proverbs 31: 31, Philippians 2: 14)

    8. Homemaking – A Virtuous Woman is a homemaker. She creates an inviting atmosphere of warmth and love for her family and guests. She uses hospitality to minister to those around her. (Proverbs 31: 15, Proverbs 31: 20 – 22, Proverbs 31: 27, Titus 2: 5, 1 Peter 4: 9, Hebrews 13: 2)

    9. Time - A Virtuous Woman uses her time wisely. She works diligently to complete her daily tasks. She does not spend time dwelling on those things that do not please the Lord.
    (Proverbs 31: 13, Proverbs 31: 19, Proverbs 31: 27, Ecclesiastes 3, Proverbs 16: 9, Philippians 4:8 )

    10. Beauty – A Virtuous Woman is a woman of worth and beauty. She has the inner beauty that only comes from Christ. She uses her creativity and sense of style to create beauty in her life and the lives of her loved ones.
    (Proverbs 31: 10Proverbs 31: 21 – 22, Proverbs 31: 24 -25, Isaiah 61: 10, 1 Timothy 2: 9, 1 Peter 3: 1 – 6)

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    Friday, March 30, 2012

    A time for everything....

    Man, did I get what I needed when opening my devotional today! I've been thinking a lot about my future lately, specifically looking into finances; what I need to put aside now in order to be comfortable for that beautiful time they call retirement!! In researching numbers and percentages, I was also looking at different careers in different locations. I thought about where some of my friends are and their incomes, I thought about the average 25 year old, etc.

    Today I caught up on both yesterday and today's entries from my favorite devotional: Sarah Young's Jesus Calling. Too good not to share!

    March 29th entry:
    STOP TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT before their times have come. Accept the limitations of living one day at a time. When something comes to your attention, ask Me whether or not it is part of todays agenda. If it isn't, release it into My care and go on about today's duties. When you follow this practice, there will be a beautiful simplicity about your life: a time for everything, and everything in its time.
    A life lived close to Me is not complicated or cluttered. When your focus is on My Presence, many things that once troubled you lose their power over you. Though the world around you is messy and confusing, remember that I have overcome the world. I have told you these things, so that in Me you may have Peace.


    There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven. --Ecclesiastes 3:1

    "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." - John 16:33



    Lesson: When you're worried about your future, remember that God has big plans for your life. You need to put your concerns up to him before you start worrying and get anxious. I'm not saying you shouldn't plan or care about your future because you should but like the given verse says: There is a time for everything.